Saturday, September 12, 2015

Should an impotent husband seek the ‘help’ of a friend?

FIDELIS got married late – in his early 40s. Two years
into his marriage, he could no longer get an erection.
"I'd had problems with my libido in the past", he
confessed, "and by the time I met Lisa, my wife,
making love was very infrequent. She was only 23
and I thought that she would be fertile enough to get
pregnant with the infrequent time, I could have sex.


But she didn't. It wasn't really her fault as my semen
was often watery. I won't bore you with the details of
efforts I made to have a child. I have resigned myself
to the reality of my impotence.

"Unfortunately, I have a young wife who has a strong
sex drive and always has a need for penetrative sex
to achieve full satisfaction. So, my impotence has
come as a big disappointment to her. As a result, we
have both confided in Ade, a very close and
trustworthy friend whom we have known for many
years. He has four children but is currently separated
from his wife.

After much discussion, he has offered to help. He is
well-endowed and my wife and I are keen to accept
his offer, as we believe this would solve our
problems. I'm all for it as I feel that we could all get
something from it. He lives alone as the wife has
custody of their. kids, and he needs sex too … "

As Fidelis rattled on excitedly, I gaped at him in
disbelief. Of course, we've heard of men who passed
on pregnancies they were responsible for to their
mistresses' unsuspecting husbands. But to knowingly
look for a stand-in lover to help pregnate your wife is
pushing desperation to the limit. I told Fidelis that my
gut reaction was that it was going to be a total
disaster. What works as a fantasy often backfires.

A sex expert I discussed it with was equally appalled.

"Fidelis has to be made to realise that while we all
like to pretend we can separate sex and love, our
genitals and our hearts do inhabit the same body,"
she explained. "Many weird and wonderful things
happen when a couple start having sex. Powerful and
intoxicating hormones transfer through skin-to-skin
contact.

Sex connects and bonds people. I wonder if Fidelis
will still find it quite so exciting when his wife
suddenly packs her bag, ready to move in with her
husband's 'well-endowed' friend. He hasn't told you
how things are going to work. Does he intend to
watch while his wife is being serviced by his
enthusiastic friend in the bedroom or would he
watch the telly as if nothing is going on?"

"Man sues neighbour he paid to get his wife pregnant
but failed after 72 attempts," is a recent news item
that shows the stupidity of Fidelis action. The story-
reads: "In Stuttgart, Germany, a court judge must
decide on a case of honourable intentions in a
situation where a man hired his neighbour to get his
wife pregnant. It seems that Demetrius Soupolos, 29,
said his former beauty queen wife, Traute, wanted a
child badly, but Demetrius was told by a doctor that
he was sterile. So Soupolos after calming his wife's
protest, hired his neighbour Frank Maus, 34, to
impregnate her. Since Maus was already married and
the father of two children plus looked very much like
Soupolos to boot, the plan seemed good. Soupolos
paid Maus $2,500 dollars and for three evenings a
week for the next six months, Maus tried
desperately, a total of 72 different times, to
impregnate Traute.

"When his own wife objected, he explained," I don't
like this any more than you do, I'm simply doing it for
the money. Try- and understand'. When Traute failed
to get pregnant after six months however, Soupolos
was not understanding and insisted that Maus have a
medical examination, which he did. The doctor's
announcement that Maus was also sterile shocked
every-one except his wife, who was forced to confess
that Maus was not the real father of their children.

"Now Soupolos is suing Maus for breach of contract
in an effort to get his money back, but Maus refused
to give it up because he said he did not guarantee
conception, but only that he would give an honest
effort!"



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